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First person: God cares about how we see others

God cares about how we treat others. God cares about how we see others. God wants us to give ourselves away, to meet their needs, and to serve in the name of Jesus, said Tom Stolle, executive director of BCM/D.
  • November 1, 2024
  • Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware
  • Delaware, First Person, Latest News, Maryland
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First person: God cares about how we see others

I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about Matthew 25:31-40. I think it’s incredible that Jesus gives us a glimpse into what is going to happen at the judgment and what He is going to say.

As Christians, we understand that we must accept Jesus as Savior and as Lord to secure our eternity with Him. However, I think it’s telling that at the judgment, Jesus will address this in the context of how this was manifested in how we loved and served others. God cares about how we treat others. God cares about how we see others. God wants us to give ourselves away, to meet their needs, and to serve in the name of Jesus.

Often, in our fallen state, we may default to ways of thinking that may go something like this: “Perhaps they wouldn’t be in that situation if they worked harder. Perhaps they wouldn’t be sick if they took better care of themselves. Perhaps they wouldn’t be so alone if they were a nicer person.” However, we must remember we are all His image bearers. God wants us to see others as He sees them. Consider what has happened in your life to deepen your desire to love and serve others. What has God allowed you to endure to make you more aware of the suffering and struggle of others?

Struggles that changed us

Twenty-three years ago, God gave Shelley and I our third son. Jimmy has many challenges. Among these challenges are severe autism, the inability to speak, and other complex disabilities. While the struggle and pain is real, God uses it to make Shelley and I better servants and better people. We can all point to struggles in our lives that have changed us. God desires that through our pain and suffering, we draw closer to him, that our hearts are changed, that we become more like Jesus, and that we more clearly see the needs of others.

RELATED: To learn more about the Stolle’s story, click here.

One of the things I love about our churches is how we respond to the needs of others.

As I consider the churches that are part of the BCM/D, I see ministries to the poor. I see ministries to individuals whose lives have been ripped apart by a divorce. I see ministries to individuals with disabilities, immigrants, individuals struggling with addiction, the abused, those affected by natural disasters, and so many more. I could go on and on naming more ministries, but you get the point.

I see the people of God rallying together and seeing the needs of others; I see the people of God responding in love to meet those needs!

Can we do better? Of course! There is always room for improvement and growth. None of us has fully arrived, but what we are doing is making a difference, and through these efforts, we are evidencing the love of Jesus.

I’m honored to be a part of a convention of churches in Maryland/Delaware and beyond that live out these words of Jesus: “I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!”

Let’s continue to love and serve! In Jesus name!


EDITOR’S NOTE — This story was written by Tom Stolle, executive director of the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware. Tom Stolle serves as the executive director of the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware.

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