Marty Bennett, pastor of Life Connection Church in Severn, Maryland, woke up at 6 a.m. on March 26, much earlier than usual, and told his wife that he was going to pray. An hour later, he received a text from a friend checking on his family with links to the news about the bridge collapse in Baltimore.
The collapse of the Francis Scott Key Bridge — after being hit by a cargo ship — stunned families in and around the area. Divers continue working to recover six construction workers who are still missing.
Marty was horrified and immediately began to be concerned for his son, Meric, a truck driver who worked right by the bridge. Marty couldn’t remember Meric’s shift but thought it was night.
“I didn’t know if he was driving at the time of the collapse, and that threw me,” Marty said.
‘It’s going to be okay’
As someone who regularly counsels others to be anxious for nothing, Marty began telling himself, “It’s going to be okay.” He tried to contact Meric. “I called and texted him, and after 10–15 minutes, I didn’t hear anything.” He began sending out texts to friends asking them to pray.
“I was trying to keep it together; I didn’t want to get my wife (Demetra) anxious, but when I finally talked to her, a few tears came out,” he said.
Marty said he didn’t want to keep calling Meric. “He could have been unloading. I was refusing to get myself worked up.”
Demetra suggested they visit his house to see if his car was there. They decided to give it a little more time, and Marty made coffee and breakfast. Finally, Meric texted Demetra, who serves as Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware church partnership specialist.
Marty recalled, “Demetra got him on the phone and handed it to me. The minute I heard his voice, I started crying — tears of joy.” Meric said he was on the bridge the night before it collapsed at the same time. On that evening, however, he was training another driver, and they traveled a different way.
Meric told his father, “I don’t know why this particular night I decided to take him on a different route and not take the bridge.” As Meric and the driver-in-training were driving away from the exit to the bridge, emergency vehicles were headed toward the bridge.
Marty noted, “This is why I got up to pray. I’m so grateful to God for pulling me out of bed earlier.”
“God is faithful,” Marty said, adding that if Meric had fallen into the water and died, he would have been devastated, but he knows where his son would be — and he would still trust in God.
Responding to the tragedy
However, many individuals are grieving and traumatized. Maryland/Delaware pastors near the bridge are prayerfully determining how to best minister to their communities.
Tyler Silvey, pastor of Church of the Harbor in Edgemere, said many in his church regularly commuted across the bridge. One family has two sons who pilot ships in the area. “It’s hitting pretty close to them,” Silvey said.
He’s been in touch with contacts at the local fire department to see how the church can help. “There’s not a lot that can be done now, but we’ve offered to open our space for workers to eat and take breaks if needed. The community really seems to be coming together,” he said.
Chris Gudmonson, pastor of First Baptist Church, Dundalk, shared about Eastern Assemblies of God pastor Ed Michael in Dundalk, who was returning home from a mission trip and crossing the bridge less than a half hour before the collapse.
On his Facebook page, Michael shared, “I was returning from Honduras and went over the bridge about 1 a.m., then came home, crawled in bed, said goodnight to my wife and heard a loud boom — a loud roar. I thought it was thunder. I didn’t know what to think, so I woke up and found out it was the bridge.”
Michael, on social media, emphasized that the bridge collapse brings to mind the brevity of life, and more people may be open to the gospel this Easter.
BCM/D executive director Tom Stolle encourages all to pray for the heartbroken and traumatized individuals and families who are impacted by the situation. “We thank God for and also pray for the brave rescue workers and others giving of their time and skill, and for churches who will be ministering to those effected.”
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EDITOR’S NOTE — This story was written by Sharon Mager and originally published by Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delware.
