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‘Created in His image’: Baptist women focus on ‘truth’ in face of identity, gender battles

  • June 12, 2023
  • Lonnie Wilkey
  • Latest News, Louisiana, North Carolina, SBC 2023, South Carolina, Texas
Katie J. McCoy, director of women’s ministry at the Baptist General Convention of Texas, speaks during the annual Pastors Wives/Women’s Conference.
(Photo by Sam Evans/The Baptist Paper)

‘Created in His image’: Baptist women focus on ‘truth’ in face of identity, gender battles

Hundreds of Southern Baptist women from across the nation explored the theme “Imago Dei: Created in His Image — Female” during the annual Pastors Wives/Women’s Conference held June 12 in conjunction with the Southern Baptist Convention Pastors Conference.

One of the primary topics covered by speakers dealt with the confusion of gender identity that is now pervasive in today’s culture.

“The effect of gender confusion and what it means to be a woman has reached our churches,” observed Katie J. McCoy, director of women’s ministry of the Baptist General Convention of Texas and author of “To Be a Woman: The Confusion Over Female Identity and How Churches Can Respond.”

“Gender confusion is just not growing, it is exploding — and by a landslide,” McCoy said.

She observed that Satan “is blinding a generation to the truth of their identity.”

“To reach them will take compassion. … You have been chosen as God’s witness in this time, in this culture,” McCoy said.

“God has not given us a spirit of fear, but a spirit of power,” Rachel Gilson, who serves on the leadership team for Cru, says during the Pastors Wives/Women’s Conference. (Photo by Sam Evans/The Baptist Paper)

Controversial speaker

Another speaker on gender identity — Rachel Gilson — drew the ire of some Southern Baptists last month.

Gilson, a former “lesbian atheist,” serves with Cru (formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ) on the leadership team for theological development and culture and is the author of “Born Again This Way: Coming Out, Coming to Faith and What Comes Next.”  She became the center of controversy when a clip circulated on Twitter of her speaking to an audience, addressing the question of whether a person should leave a same-sex “marriage” if he or she becomes a Christian.

According to churchleaders.com, Gilson recently dealt with the controversy on the May 23 episode of the Confronting Christianity podcast where she joined host Rebecca McLaughlin and North Carolina pastor and former SBC president J.D. Greear. The podcast addressed the question, “Should someone in a same-sex ‘marriage’ who becomes a Christian get divorced?”

Gilson noted that “by definition, a same-sex ‘marriage’ is not a marriage in God’s eyes even though it’s a legal contract that does exist in our society right now,” the website reported.

Churchleader.com reported that “several Christian influencers perceived Gilson to be endorsing Christians remaining in gay ‘marriages,’ and some subsequently called for her to be removed as a speaker from the [conference].”

The same day the controversy erupted, Gilson posted a statement on Twitter in which she said that “same-sex ‘marriages’ are “sinful” and “if someone in a same-sex ‘marriage’ becomes a Christian, the path of obedience is to end that marriage by divorce. This has been my consistent teaching.” 

Gilson did address the conference June 12, and the controversy was not mentioned.

Navigating difficult conversations

Gilson was asked how Christians can navigate contemporary conversations around gender and sexuality. She observed that the dominant emotion in those conversations is fear.

“God has not given us a spirit of fear, but a spirit of power,” she maintained.

Citing John 4:1–26, she encouraged Southern Baptist women to remember this principle when having conversations about gender and sexuality. “Our neighbors need Jesus, and they need truth and grace,” Gilson said.

The conference also featured a panel discussion with McCoy, Gilson and Jess Archer, executive director of South Carolina Woman’s Missionary Union, addressing additional gender-related issues such as how to have truthful conversations with children who are bombarded with the issue in their schools. The women also addressed how churches can better minister to single women.

Donna Gaines, who was instrumental in helping to form the conference nearly 20 years ago, reminded the women that ministry can be lonely. “We need each other,” she stressed while encouraging them not to leave the meeting without the phone number and email address of another attendee.

Plea for unity

She issued a plea for Southern Baptists to love one another and to have unity. “If we polled this room on how the Southern Baptist Convention could be described” she predicted no one would use the word “love.” “Shame on us,” she said.

Kathy Litton, director of planting spouse development of the North American Mission Board, speaks during the Pastors Wives/Women’s Conference. (Photo by Sam Evans/The Baptist Paper)

Gaines noted that unity is desperately needed in the convention. “We need unity so we can live under the blessing of God,” she said.

Gaines, wife of Tennessee pastor and former SBC president Steve Gaines, also noted that there are missionaries and church planters in the world “who are depending on our unity. We must choose unity over division,”

Kathy Litton, director of planting spouse development at the North American Mission Board challenged those in attendance to be resilient in life and in ministry.

“Do you have a circumstance in your life that requires resilience?” she asked. 

Litton cited the Old Testament story of Joseph, who was betrayed by his brothers, exiled and put in prison. Joseph is a dramatic story of resilience, she said.

She reminded the women that God’s plan is bigger than any event people will face. “Resiliency is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, diversity, trauma and tragedy,” she said.

To view more photos from this event, click here.


EDITOR’S NOTE — This story was written by Lonnie Wilkey and is part of the team coverage of Southern Baptist Convention annual meeting and related events by staff members from The Baptist Record, Baptist & Reflector, Baptist Message, Illinois Baptist, The Alabama Baptist and The Baptist Paper.

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